I was confronted to read recently that a Sydney modeling agency had advised one of their young models, who incidentally is the ripe old age of 16, that she was becoming too old to model. Apparently, as a society, we are now recruiting models as young as 13 because at 16, they are past their used-by date.
After I calmed down, I started thinking about whether or not we are ever too old to tackle something new. How does our age impact upon our potential to grow, learn or try something new?
Whilst I like to consider myself as someone who continues to grow, remain open to new ideas and extend myself, I must admit that the older I get, the more set in my ways I become and the less ‘flexible’ I find myself.
What is it that prevents us from wanting to learn new skills, make new friends or travel to new places? Is it confidence? Is it fear? Is it stubbornness? Or, is it past experience?
Our previous experiences can impact enormously on our willingness to ‘put ourselves out there’ again. Anyone who has experienced a relationship break down will be familiar with the phrase ‘never again’.
With this in mind, consider a young person who has been miserable at school. For whatever reason, the mainstream school environment has not agreed with them. No wonder they are so hesitant to go back into a learning environment. Someone who has had a car accident is obviously challenged by getting behind the wheel again.
So, I pose the question: can we teach old, or young dogs, new tricks?
It might sound naive but I believe we can. I try to remember that “many roads lead to Rome”. By that I mean that not everyone does the same thing at the same time. We don’t all have to travel the same path to reach the same destination. We all do things at our own pace and maybe maturity or a period of separation from a task or challenge can reinvigorate our passion or willingness. Staying positive and focusing on strengths rather than preventions or challenges can keep our minds open to success and change.
Now, this old dog is off to try something new.